Understanding Men
Understanding men and why we choose to be with you drives a lot of women up the wall. When women ask us, "do you love me?" or "what's so special about me that you can't find in other women?" it annoys us. We don't want to hurt you, but the truth is, we can't answer that.
Understanding Men
If we answer that, then you become far too conscious of yourself doing whatever it is that we like about you. You become contrived and what you do feels unnatural to you, since you're more aware of it after we mention it.
There's a lot to say about being yourself, but I'll try and say the main points in Tip #10. Being yourself, being comfortable in your own skin is one of the foundations of confidence. If you can't be yourself, you don't respect yourself. Plus, that means you'll always put on this fake persona whenever you're talking to the man you're interested in.
Do you have one of those friends who you secretly wonder, "how the heck does she guys chasing after her?" Yeah, she doesn't look all that attractive, but she still manages to go through men like they're some sort of fashion trend.
She accepts herself for what she is. I mean sure, everyone wants what they can't have, but the fact that she's loves herself the way that she is, means that she shows off her best traits to men around her, which means that they notice them.
Here's an example. Say you're a big girl. If you're desperately trying to be one of those sad cases who throw up their lunch to try and lose weight, you're going to give off a miserable vibe. Whereas, if you love your curves, men who love curves are going to chase after you, since you use them to your advantage.
There isn't only one type of beauty. I firmly believe that all women are beautiful and as long as you define what's beautiful about you, you will be able to find men who are into your sort of beauty. Men are only going to love you as much as you love yourself.
As you go through life getting better and understanding men, I hope that you realize that if you feel that your man is growing distant from you, it could be because that you're losing touch with yourself. We love you, just the way you are. We don't marry you for who you hope to be or used to be.
Understanding Men
Understanding Men
If we answer that, then you become far too conscious of yourself doing whatever it is that we like about you. You become contrived and what you do feels unnatural to you, since you're more aware of it after we mention it.
There's a lot to say about being yourself, but I'll try and say the main points in Tip #10. Being yourself, being comfortable in your own skin is one of the foundations of confidence. If you can't be yourself, you don't respect yourself. Plus, that means you'll always put on this fake persona whenever you're talking to the man you're interested in.
Do you have one of those friends who you secretly wonder, "how the heck does she guys chasing after her?" Yeah, she doesn't look all that attractive, but she still manages to go through men like they're some sort of fashion trend.
She accepts herself for what she is. I mean sure, everyone wants what they can't have, but the fact that she's loves herself the way that she is, means that she shows off her best traits to men around her, which means that they notice them.
Here's an example. Say you're a big girl. If you're desperately trying to be one of those sad cases who throw up their lunch to try and lose weight, you're going to give off a miserable vibe. Whereas, if you love your curves, men who love curves are going to chase after you, since you use them to your advantage.
There isn't only one type of beauty. I firmly believe that all women are beautiful and as long as you define what's beautiful about you, you will be able to find men who are into your sort of beauty. Men are only going to love you as much as you love yourself.
As you go through life getting better and understanding men, I hope that you realize that if you feel that your man is growing distant from you, it could be because that you're losing touch with yourself. We love you, just the way you are. We don't marry you for who you hope to be or used to be.
Understanding Men